I woke up in the middle of the night and panic crept in. What am I going to do about payroll? What happens if my flight gets cancelled? Is Mr. Fernwicky mad enough to rant on Facebook? Then the negative non-stop thoughts of doubt! Despair. Fear.
Everything is scarier in the dark. Eyes wide open, I fussed about the “what ifs” until the sun came up. As light filled the room, my fears seemed to shrink. I’ve been through lean times before. There’s always another flight, or another day to travel. I’m good at resolving conflicts. Why the sleepless night?
This is how I spent soooo many nights. And that is what motivated me to learn how to meditate. As I understood it, meditation is UN-thinking. I wanted the ability to shut down that awful, fear-mongering voice in my head and get back to sleep.
So, I took an online meditation course. It was called 40 Days and 40 Nights. (Thanks, David Morelli!) I took it twice, so I learned and practiced meditation techniques, morning and evening, for the better part of three months. While I had half-heartedly attempted meditation before, this concentrated course of study is when I started to experience the benefits of meditation.
Now, I can easily get myself to sleep or back to sleep. Sometimes it takes just seconds. The technique I use most frequently is bringing my energy and attention to the center of my head. I imagine a point of light (love, God) in the middle of my head. That focus means I can’t think of anything else, past or future. It puts me right in the right now…and I drift off to sleep.
I also meditate in the morning. Sometimes just for a minute or two. What I’ve discovered is that in the peace of the now, well, everything seems a little more manageable.
At an AA meeting (I’ll maintain anonymity here!) I heard someone say, “My sponsor told me she wasn’t going to try and teach me anything until I got quiet in my head. She said, ‘There’s no room for new thoughts when the old ones are running wild. First, let’s calm down.’ We started with meditation.” What a great mentoring concept!
If during the day, I find that I am trash talking myself – “Stupid me!” – I find it easier to stop the chatter, and THEN consider a kinder conversation. Meditation helps me shut down the inane voice in my head. And it is also my door to inspiration and creativity. While still a novice, I am sold on the practice. So…. what do you think?
Ready to UN-Think for a bit? Here are a few more tips…